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Continuation of Commentaries

on the Maxims on Love of St. John of the Cross

by Fr. Bruno Cocuzzi, ocd

 

 

Maxim 25.

"He who is ashamed to confess Me before men, I shall be ashamed to confess  him before My Father," says the Lord.  (Matt. 10:32; Luke 9:26)

 

Of eighty maxims St. John gives us, this is the first that he takes in its entirety from Sacred Scripture.  Only in one other does he quote Scripture, and then it is only to support the maxim that he does give.

 

At first sight, this statement of Our Lord Jesus does not seem to satisfy the definition of a maxim, which is:  a succinct formulation of a fundamental principle or rule of conduct.  To be a maxim, a saying directly enjoins a particular deed or mode of conduct upon us.  this statement of Our Lord is more an observation, a statement of fact.  But of course, it is easy to change this into a maxim.  We do it by stating:  See to it that you confess Jesus before others, so that Jesus will confess you before His Father.  And surely, that is what St. John of the Cross must have had in mind for us to do when he included it among the maxims.

 

What then do we mean by the phrase:  "Confess Jesus?"  I think we can say that it means:  to give evidence that we know Jesus, in the same way that we want Jesus to know ourselves.  The reason I say that is because in one of His discourses (Luke 13:23-27) Jesus was responding to the question:  "Lord, are they few who will be saved?"  He did not respond directly, but simply said:  "Strive to enter by the narrow gate, because many will try to and be unable."  Then He said: "after the householder has entered the house and closed the door, you will stand outside and knock, saying 'Lord, open for us.'  And He will tell you:  'I don't know where you're from.'  And you will say:  'We ate and drank with you, you taught in our streets.'  And He will say to you:  'I don't know where you are from.  Depart from me you workers of iniquity."

 

Thus, we would confess Jesus, that is, we would know Him when we give evidence that we know where He is from.

 

Now, obviously, it is not enough to have intellectual knowledge only that Jesus is from God, and that He is God, one with God the Father and God the Holy Spirit.  It is necessary to let that intellectual knowledge become the source and inspiration of all our human activities, and to give form and substance to our lives.  Since we know that Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life, we give evidence that we know this when we imitate that conduct.

 

This raises a question:  Is it possible to imitate Jesus when one is all alone in secret, that is not in the presence of others, as it is possible to pray in secret, and indeed advisable to pray alone and not in the presence of others?  I am convinced that it is next to impossible to imitate Jesus as the Way, the Truth and the Life when there is no one to relate to.  Praying in secret does imitate Jesus in that praying is a loving interrelationship with God.

 

But can we say that there are many ways that we can imitate Jesus when we are with people?  Is it true that only some of those ways really imitate Him as Way, Truth and Life?

 

I guess the answer to that is that only those ways of imitating Jesus that certain people are ashamed to be seen doing are the ways of imitating Him as Way, Truth and Life.  For example, would anyone feel ashamed to give a brilliant discourse before a crowd of people as did Jesus on many, many (actually all) occasions?  Would anyone be ashamed to perform remarkable cures in the presence of huge crowds?  Would anyone be ashamed to have a large number of followers, disciples, to carry on his/her work? Probably not.  Therefore, in doing these things, one would not be following Jesus as the Way, the Truth and the Life.

 

So, to imitate Jesus as Way and Truth and Life a person would have to be willing to serve, rather than be served, and to give his/her life as a ransom for others.  Or, one would have to be willing to look foolish and be thought of as foolish and of no account by the ones society considers great.  This happens when, after being struck on one cheek, the victim turns and offers the other.  Also, it happens when, after someone has asked for our cloak, we give them our tunic as well.  Again it happens, when, after having been injured or ill treated by others, we not only refrain from seeking revenge or breaking off relationships, but actually treat them as dear friends and never cease being good to them.  That is what the important people of the world consider weakness and foolishness.  I guess to sum it up, we imitate Jesus as Way, Truth and Life when, in the presence of all, we are meek and humble of heart.  Jesus did say:  "Learn [this] of Me, for (read that) I am meek and humble of Heart.,"  What we learn we know.  So when we know Jesus as meek and humble of Heart and imitate Him, we are truly confessing Him before others.

 

An objection could be raised:  Most of us very seldom, if ever, are in the presence of others who would consider us foolish for being meek and humble of heart.  If none of those around me are such as to cause me to feel ashamed to confess Jesus in that way, how can I be sure that Jesus will not be ashamed to confess me before His Father?

 

Well, in the passage from Scripture I quote above, I used the translation "I don't know where you are from."  Another version translates that as:  "I don't know where you come from."  That suggests a further possibility:  "I don't know where you are  coming from."  This latter phrase is an idiom for:  "I don't know what your motivation is," or "I don't know what you're driving at (what your intentions are)."  Therefore, even though we may never be in the presence of folks who would make fun of us or hold us in contempt for being meek and humble of heart, we can always be motivated by meekness and humility of heart.

 

So in all our lives, on those occasions when we can imitate Jesus by teaching and doing good for the benefit of others, and find ourselves well thought of by our relatives, friends and acquaintances, Jesus is looking at our hearts.  If we are truly humble, and we acknowledge that all that we do that is good has God as its author, that He gave us our talents as a free gift, and if our primary and predominant joy in serving is to see others helped and happy rather than to gloat inwardly over the fact that we did these good works, then our motivation is good.

 

But meekness can be present, too.  Meekness, after all, is the virtue that overcomes the temptation to be angry and resentful.  Suppose there is no recognition on the part of others, no word of thanks, no least sign of appreciation, but rather the feeling that we are being taken advantage of?  If in that circumstance we continue to serve and do good as whole-heartedly as when there is recognition and thanks, then again we have the meekness that imitates Jesus, our Way, Truth and Life.

 

Finally, perhaps its not true that we seldom are among people who would think us foolish for confessing, by our deeds, that we know and imitate Jesus.  This maxim was given by St. John to Friars and Nuns, those whom we would expect would never ridicule those who are meek and humble of heart.  So I guess what St. John is telling us by this Maxim, given to those who profess vows to follow Jesus in poverty and obedience and chastity (which latter by the way, worldly people especially think is utter foolishness), is that Pride in us always remains so difficult to overcome, that not even Religious life and a life outwardly dedicated to serving God is an infallible guarantee that we have attained the meekness and humility of Heart that will cause Jesus to confess us before His heavenly Father.

 

And after all that, it finally occurred to me that St. John+ is talking about "human respect," which means caring more about what people might think about us than we do about offending God, even if it means committing serious sin.  The really frightful thing about this "human respect" is that one never knows for sure what others would think of us for doing the good and honorable thing.  Perhaps if one were to overcome the fear of what others might think, and do what God wills for us in a particular situation, he would discover that his fear was groundless.

                                                           

The best example of what horrendous sins human respect can lead to is found in the action of King Herod in the Gospel.  Because He was afraid of what his military officers and the leading mean of Galilee might think if he did not keep his promise to Salome, Herodias' daughter, he gave the order to have John the Baptist beheaded.  The fact that "human respect" governs an awful lot of what we say and do indicates how deeply rooted pride is in us as a result of original sin.

 

 

Maxim 26 - 

 

Frequent combing gives the hair more luster and makes it easier to comb.  A soul that frequently examines its thought, words and deeds, which are its hair, doing all things for the love of God, will have lustrous hair.  then the Spouse will look upon the neck of the bride and thereby be captivated, and will be wounded by one of her eyes, that is, by the purity of intention she has in all she does.  If, in combing hair one wants it to have luster, one begins from the crown.  All our works must begin from the crown (the love of God) if we wish them to be pure and lustrous.

 

This maxim does not require much comment, because St. John+ himself explains its chief meaning.  It is about motivation and intention.  As he says, the combing is an inquiry into one's motives, or better, into the reason why one acts as he does, and thus, what one is trying to achieve by its words and deeds.  An old saying in moral Theology is:  The Last  in execution is the First in intention.

 

St. John is telling us in this figurative language that our thoughts, words and deeds have various degrees of beauty and attractiveness in the sight of God.  It is even possible that they have none at all, and thus are offensive in the sight of God.  He makes it very clear, too, that that which pleases Him and makes our thoughts, words and deeds attractive to Him is purity of intention.

 

He is also suggesting, I think that if we never examine our motives to correct them and keep them pure, they very easily lose their quality of purity.  It is the same as with hair.  If never attended to, it soon looks a mess.  Thus, if we fail often to make deliberate efforts to keep our intentions pure by choosing to do all things for love of God, we lapse back into acting out of love for ourselves or for someone or something other than God.

 

           

Implicitly, St. John+ is telling us that in addition to losing their luster, the motives behind our thoughts, words and deeds can become entangled and knotted, so that it is extremely difficult to disentangle them, if not impossible.  Then the process of doing so can be very painful, just as it would be for someone with entangled, knotted long hair to get all the strands separated and straightened.  We can take that a step further by observing that it might require painful mortification or penance and other forms of self-denial and detachment from persons and things in order to accomplish it.  Sometimes we are unable to do that by ourselves, at which times God in His Mercy has to send us trials and sufferings that purify our motives by destroying any disordered love we might have for persons and things.

 

I cannot help thinking that this maxim of St. John follows logically from the maxim that precedes it in this list.  He must have had in mind the "human respect" we just finished talking about.  He may be telling us in this way that we are all more afflicted by "human respect" (or respect of persons) than we tend to believe.  So if we examine our thoughts, words and deeds to see whether we are trying to please others more than we are trying to please God, then perhaps that kind of inquiry is the most efficient way of accomplishing the "combing" that restores (or gives) luster to our conduct in the sight of God.

 

I think we can also say that there is a connection between this Maxim 26 and Maxim 24 as well.  For Jesus to be captivated by the lustrous hair on the neck of the soul would correspond to "God being taken with love" for a soul.  In maxim 24 St. John+ says that it is the greatness of the soul's humility that causes Him to be taken with (captivated by) love.  Hence, another way of doing the "combing" Maxim 26 speaks of is to examine our thoughts, words and deeds in the light of the virtue of humility.  Probably this examination as to the humility that does or does not form the basis of all our deeds in the best way to purify our thoughts, whereas making use of the concept of "human respect" is the best way to purify our deeds and words, i.e., give them the luster that pleases God.

 

This maxim also provides another meaning for the expression:  "to be taken with love."  It suggests that this means "God cannot take His eyes off the soul" that has such lustrous hair., i.e., thoughts, words and deeds springing from humility and from love of Himself.  What is the effect of this constant "looking upon" the soul with the lustrous hair?  St. John+ himself tells us in the Stanza 5 of the Spiritual Canticle.  In response to the question of the soul having gone out in search of the Bridegroom, the woods, the thickets, the green meadows enameled with bright flowers tell her:  "Pouring our a thousand graces He passed these groves in haste; and having looked at them, with His image alone, clothed them in beauty."  One quick glance of the Bridegroom impressed enough of the image of Himself upon those things, that they became clothed in beauty.  Imagine then, how much or Himself and His infinite beauty He infuses into the soul whose luster is such that He cannot take His eyes off her.

 

Before leaving this Maxim 26, I want to make two observations.  First, what gives luster to long hair is the "grease" that the scalp produces.  Combing that begins at the scalp, or crown picks up the grease by the bristles of the brush and distributes it along the entire length of each strand of hair.  That grease, or better "oil" is the equivalent of the love of God that St. John identifies with the crown, or scalp itself.  The second observation has to do with the many activities we engage in daily that are neutral in themselves.  That is, they are neither inherently good, nor inherently evil.  These can be transformed into morally good or morally evil by the intention with which they are performed.  If we form the habit of making the express intention of doing them for love of God, they become not only good, but take on the luster that is so attractive to the eyes of Jesus, the Bridegroom.

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